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		<description><![CDATA[Mark, I want a dog No you don&#8217;t, do you know what it takes Have you ever had a dog Well, not my own dog Mark, I want a dog Really, are you sure, it&#8217;s a lot of work Now &#8230; <a href="http://waldmanblog.com/?p=8">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mark, I want a dog<br />
No you don&#8217;t, do you know what it takes<br />
Have you ever had a dog<br />
Well, not my own dog					</p>
<p>Mark,  I want a dog<br />
Really, are you sure, it&#8217;s a lot of work<br />
Now or never,  a month between jobs<br />
Find one, find a lot and let&#8217;s see				</p>
<p>A road trip for a dog<br />
Four litters, 1200 miles, two days<br />
We may not find one, but we&#8217;ll try<br />
East, south, west, a litter all				</p>
<p>First litter was a barn of dogs<br />
Puppies are always cute, but which,<br />
Outside litter is not what we want<br />
On we went,  into the city				</p>
<p>Another pack of dogs<br />
Cute and warm but none that stuck<br />
The click, the attachment, the right one<br />
Not found and more road to hit				</p>
<p>The last litter, isn&#8217;t it always&#8230;a dog<br />
Only two left but fuzzy and cute like them all<br />
One damaged but needing and fun<br />
One serious but warm and wanting			</p>
<p>Marriage is compromise, so is a dog<br />
I like the male; strong, excited and demanding<br />
She liked the one, the one who sat and loved<br />
I succumbed, loving is always the winner</p>
<p>A long drive home with a fluffy dog<br />
Sad and lost, pee pad underneath<br />
The front floor was not ideal<br />
But neither were the demands to come</p>
<p>At home, lost owner, lost dog<br />
Trying to do right is not always right<br />
The right size crate, bed, bowl<br />
Knowing all and knowing nothing</p>
<p>The first nights are hard for a dog<br />
Doing right is training from the start<br />
Watching every move, catching every mistake<br />
OUTSIDE, quick, always to the same spot</p>
<p>3am, whining, scared, unknowing, our dog<br />
What  have I done, what have we done,<br />
For some, a dog&#8217;s life is less important<br />
For us, a promise, a commitment</p>
<p>For some, a life of less is a dog<br />
For us, life is a promise, one to take whole hearted<br />
We took, we cherished, we watched over it</p>
<p>A gift is only as valuable as the appreciation<br />
Peeing, Pooping, playing, eating, a dog<br />
I imagine it not much different than a child</p>
<p>All work, cleaning and effort is rewarded<br />
The love and warmth given lying together<br />
A couch, a place to sit, a taboo for a dog</p>
<p>For me, a place to share, and place to love<br />
Together we cuddle, we tussle<br />
Human hair, dog fur, clouds of joy</p>
<p>A gift and responsibility is a dog<br />
If we are to a have a dog, then work<br />
Make the life of our dog our life,<br />
Train, interact, walk, involve and travel</p>
<p>There is no second rate member, a dog<br />
Of my family, all must learn to participate<br />
all must learn to behave<br />
a part of society means knowing the way</p>
<p>Every day, we would train, man and dog<br />
15 minutes of serious focus, 1 hour of play<br />
A lot can be taught and shared<br />
A little time each day, a lot of time every year</p>
<p>Daily focus and effort of a dog<br />
Created daily joy and relief for a man<br />
I lived a hard life, she lived a restricted  life<br />
together we found 75 minutes of real life</p>
<p>A bag of treats for a bag of tricks for my dog<br />
Wait, Stay, Hike, Heel, Backup and Figure Eight<br />
The limitation was mine<br />
The joy and happiness was ours</p>
<p>Pride is a powerful thing for a dog<br />
To know what you are here to do<br />
to do it well and know<br />
Do I really live a better life</p>
<p>I learned a lot from my dog<br />
Mostly I learned to listen<br />
It is hard to hear a foreign tongue<br />
It is easy to ignore and complain</p>
<p>Language is words for man but not a dog<br />
The look, the posture, the whimper<br />
to understand was difficult for me at first<br />
I had to learn to listen</p>
<p>How often do we listen less than dogs<br />
Sympathy and empathy are words of perception<br />
Listening is so much more<br />
So, I listened, I learned and I am better</p>
<p>It was important to have my dog<br />
Always with me, able to go<br />
I did not want the dog of my childhood<br />
Locked away, unable to be a part of my life</p>
<p>The rules  for my dog<br />
were rules of participation, rules of society<br />
I did not create the rules, I followed<br />
So did my dog</p>
<p>Once learned, rules gave freedom to my dog<br />
Stores, travel, walking all became shared<br />
Joys of togetherness absent the confine of leashes<br />
We became friends contained within the box of society</p>
<p>A name is important, it defines a dog<br />
Are you an equal and given a &#8220;real&#8221; name<br />
are you a toy, given a name of an object<br />
you are my friend and family &#8211; Hannah</p>
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